Ow hai ^^
My names dave. Ive only actively looked into BDSM for about 1 year now, but now that i look back on my life i realise i have always feel this way. Growing up with 2 older brothers where fighting (abusive and play) has been a daily practise ive come to be farely immune to pain and restraint but it also reminds me of some of the funnest times of my life and i thing that effects why i enjoy it so much.

i havern't had a BDSM partner although in the future it would be nice to have someone i can share this part of my life with. At the moment im just lookinf to make friends and meet people with this same interest and to learn from it. If i get a chance to find someone to experiment with thats even better.

In some cases i find online rp, etc to be hard since it's no realistic so i dont really verge into that side.

I am a uni student studying web design and my vanilla passions are music (i sing, play bass/reg guitar, and alittle drums and piano), video games (i am a wow player amung other things) and moto/mountain bikes.

Im 18 turning 19 this year, and im a straight guy. Abit on the larger size but my new lifestyle that ive gained since uni is allowing me to be more active and its having positive responses. Two things i dont really like about myself is my build (tall and big) and my hair. Blonde locks/curls are annoying but it's hard to find a hairstyle i like and that suits me.