Quote Originally Posted by Aetolian View Post
Frankly I believe it takes a hell of a lot of courage to be a 'good' sub and trust in someone else like that. So, to sum it up, I respect someone more if they are willing and able to be humiliated
OK, so I'm not really offended but I don't see how being willing to be humiliated makes someone a "good" sub. Everyone has their individual likes & dislikes, their hard & soft limits. I'm not a bad sub because humiliation doesn't do anything for me...

What about the courage it takes to be a "good" dom? A dom who forcibly humiliates his sub knowing she does not enjoy such activities isn't deserving of respect in my book, even if she trusts him enough to do as he asks.