kids come first...period. kids are number one. spending that needed time with her is a must. you both need that time together.

After all her needs are met them you can focus on his. I agree that there is not enough time in the day to do all the things you want most of the time. but if you really look, i am sure you can find the time for him too.

it can be hard to transition from tittle to title, it takes time...but it does get better. Good luck..hope this helped some.