Yup....I hear you loud & clear. I think he just has so much on his mind, he's not in a place where he can devote 100% of his attention to me. I'm lucky that hardly ever is the case-we're talking about a man who can go 5 times in a 24 hour period, for an hour or more each time. Probably I've just gotten spoiled because his sex drive is so high, and when he's not the one initiating things, I feel weirded out, like maybe he's lost interest all of a sudden. I'm sure he'll be his normal demanding, sadistic self when the magical hour approaches.