Who has the most power?

[angelhunter]

I am just saying that power even life is nothing more but an illusion. If I kidnap someone off the streets and then I truly have the power but we are not talking about that. The sub wants to dominated, she sets the boundaries and cause this illusion take effect. When it comes down to it the master is really the slave. I am just humming.
Nuff said.

[Ozme52]

I am just saying that power even life is nothing more but an illusion. If I kidnap someone off the streets and then I truly have the power but we are not talking about that. The sub wants to dominated, she sets the boundaries and cause this illusion take effect. When it comes down to it the master is really the slave. I am just humming.
Nuff said.

Balderdash.

That's like saying you, as an employee, have all the power over your employer.

Once you accept the position (i.e., make the choice to interact within the relationship as defined,) you relinquish the power to the employer.

Thereafter, the employer holds the power until you choose to withdraw.