As a Dom, I tend to be more sadistic to men. I like to play with women's heads, tease and shame them and make them do things they said they never would; with men I'm not that subtle, I just want to hurt and use them.

I've never subbed to a man, unless you count early teenage bondage games, and there my young playmates were so unimaginative that I soon took control and never gave it back.

It's not that I wouldn't or couldn't, just I've never gone looking for the chance and it's never come up. But I imagine it would feel much the same as with women. It's nice sometimes to reflect that I still have some new things to try