confused

[IAN 2411]

I know that I am looking for something long term and because of my experiences I want some one that loves my and will protect me.

Just because you need those things does not mean you’re a sub, i gave my real life Mistress/Wife protection for thirty years, did that make her a sub, I think not.

I'm still trying to understand the being submissive side. Perhaps I'm still confused about what a Sub is/does/means?

In my case i was as powerful as my Mistress but chose to hand my power over to her when i came home in the evenings. Don’t think for one minute a sub rolls over and lets people walk all over them, it is not like that they are not carpets. You chose your own destiny in life, and you chose the way that feels comfortable to you. No person can tell you which direction you should go, that is why we were all born with brains and minds of our own.


Regards ian 2411