Yes I am having fun. This girl is adorable. But the problem is that I do have cats. 3 actually. So knowing that my interaction with them consists of petting, feeding, opening required doors, and providing a lap at times... I am at a loss for OL interactions!
Every part of this is funny for me. I am 'tickled pink'. I suppose I enjoy being out of my depth.
What I have done is required her to write me an owners manual similar to this one.
http://fetlife.com/users/159744/posts/104149
Should clarify things a little, at least in terms of her conceptualization of this dynamic. I want to know what she sees when she visualizes this, if that makes sense.
It's a place to start from.
Interestingly I can see that OL play could potentially involve more complex negotiations than in rl... I have her living arrangements to work around.
hmm.![]()