Thank you Jennifer for your reply. I'm a new sub and have been in my D/s relationship for three months now. I think seduce may have been a poor choice of word. I'm not trying to be cunning or crafty in catching and maintaining a relationship with a Dom. I truly care about my Dom's' pleasure. Are their any good books about being a Dom? I'm trying to understand the Dom's/Domme mind. I have no doubts that I am a submissive and for the first time in my life I feel complete.