Thank you for the advice and the links. I really appreciate it. ~ D

ps Guera, your correct. Just by adding "as you wish" and asking " is there anything else you desire?" and having a different tone made him very happy. Sir, called me his submissive lil wench. Being a new submissive, I'm insecure because my Dom has 20+ years in the lifestyle and I feel inadequate since I know there are way better submissive than I am. so I have been reading like crazy and putting forth effort to try and please Sir. thank you again for responding to me.