Hello

[Rel]

I'm new to the forum and, much like filling out the profile, I'm not sure what to say here. What would you like to know about me? I guess I should mention that I'm submissive and female.

[rosebud]

Hello Rel, Welcome to the Library!
It's a Pleasure to meet you.
There's much to do here...
Just take your time,
explore and
have fun!

xx rosie

[denuseri]

Welcome to our kinky little corner of the internet!

[chipmunk_]

Welcome Rel

[Solis]

I'm submissive and female.

And I'm neither. Which seems a good thing: a world of one without the other would be awfully frustrating.

In any case: Hi, Rel. And welcome. It's good to meet you.

Think of your profile (which you can change as you grow) as a way of starting conversations. You might let people know something that would make them feel comfortable and confident in starting a conversation. "About you": are you nervous about this? Do you check-in daily? Do you think of yourself as "saucy"? Perhaps you talk dirty only in French? "BDSM interests": since you're not yet actively involved in a DS relationship, what sorts of things do you fantasize about? If you're reading high class smut (hmmm... try Anne Rice's The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty, are there passages where you find one hand ...uhh, persistently in your lap? As you've read other folks' posts, are there passages where you think, "oh, my goodness"?

S.

[Rel]

Thank you for all the kind welcomes. And thank you Solis, very much, for the ideas about what to put in my profile about myself. I had to giggle at the 'talk dirty only in French' because a friend at work is slowly reteaching me French and got quick frustrated the other day when she realized I knew more cuss and dirty words than not.

[Solis]

Hmmm . . . you might suggest help with variants of "Toi, t’es une belle cochonne!" If you're feeling subbie, "Donner une fessée à moi bébé," A favorite for darkly mumbling, perhaps about a supervisor, "Il est du genre a tirer un coup avex sa soeur sans demander la permission de leur mere." Roughly, "He is the kind of person who would bang his sister without asking their mother’s permission." Perhaps because I took a tremendous hit to the forehead this evening, I find that passage inordinately amusing. The latter, by way of full disclosure, was lifted from Talk Dirty in French.

S.

[serviam {PixieStick}]

Welcome to Library Rel. Jump in and get acquainted. You will find lots of great info and a host of friendly, supportive, like-minded people to help you with your exploration. Enjoy!