Quote Originally Posted by Rel View Post
I'm submissive and female.
And I'm neither. Which seems a good thing: a world of one without the other would be awfully frustrating.

In any case: Hi, Rel. And welcome. It's good to meet you.

Think of your profile (which you can change as you grow) as a way of starting conversations. You might let people know something that would make them feel comfortable and confident in starting a conversation. "About you": are you nervous about this? Do you check-in daily? Do you think of yourself as "saucy"? Perhaps you talk dirty only in French? "BDSM interests": since you're not yet actively involved in a DS relationship, what sorts of things do you fantasize about? If you're reading high class smut (hmmm... try Anne Rice's The Claiming of Sleeping Beauty, are there passages where you find one hand ...uhh, persistently in your lap? As you've read other folks' posts, are there passages where you think, "oh, my goodness"?

S.