Thankyou Denuseri,you're words of encouragement and wealth of information has and will aid Sir and i to move further along in our journey.Communication is definatley key as i have found.i have been sending him links and writing a journal and even emailing him if something is playing on my mind,i find speaking out loud only leads to me being unclear and writing gives me the time to really think about what i have to say and for Sir to be able to read and digest at his leisure.

We do have safe words and at the beginning i used them so Sir would know that i wouldn't just let him hurt me and for himself to know that as he is extremley strong and could get carried away that when the words were spoken it was over or to change direction.I find the more confident he is the less i use them.

The idea of sitting together and having a deep discussion i had already decided to ask Sir for us to have at the weekend but your notepad idea is a very good one as i have a terrible memory..lol

I must have misinformed you in the way i wrote but i have very little experience i am learning everyday about myself and i feel i am at my happiest when i show my submission,i just know in my heart who i am,what i am and where i want to be.Never have i smiled so much.

Thankyou whole heartedly for your kind words and have already noticed by your comments on other threads that you are very knowledgable.

Pandora.x