hi,i am a very recent submissive who wishes to become a slave married to my Sir and through rough times i have realised what i am and what i strive to be which is a slave.My husband is very new to the dom/master side of things and i have found that i have had to request even tell him how and why i need things to go to aid him in him making me more submissive to him.I am very hard work and when i know he is capable of dominating me in the way i should be and want to be i will be all he will ever need and all he will ever wish for.That said i am impatient and he is going in the right direction but i feel i am doing the work for him(*which if he told me to i would do without hesitation*)but he isn't...please do not think i am being disrespectfull to my Sir because i am free to ask my questions as we are both learning.

So the question stands...how do you stop topping from the bottom.

sorry if it is the wrong thread i am new to this site and exploring all it has to offer..many thanks for any help you offer.
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