-Skull C.-

Thanyou your insight is very helpfull.Things have moved on a little he is leaning more towards his own desires and well took my breath away..haha not literally yet..lol.

I find myself taking a step back and although i will still be using my journal and links to information and literature and of course this thread, i don't feel like i am having to be so forward with him.

I am certain he will lose his way again as will i as we are both learning but i shall be there to encourage him as he will be there to remind me of my place.

I get where you were coming from in the relation to hurting your sub as Sir was very worried about hurting me and like you say the safe word helps and again yes society has it's own ways of teaching us the rights and wrongs in life but i can assure you Sir is slowly finding his more sadistic side and enjoying it to *blushes*

It has been great to hear from both sides of the coin and thankyou for your offer of assistance from your sub as all information i can gather to help us is greatly appreciated also new friends welcome to.