hi symphony,i worry about the topping from the bottom as i can be so impatient and eager to mover forward with the added pain in the butt of being too strong willed and not in a good way,he doesnt care no but thats just his way and to be very honest thats partly my own doing.the old saying give her an inch she will take a mile ok tweaked a little..lol....but with me give me an inch and i will take the m1.not good ever as it takes me right back to a place i never want to be again and thats in control.i am however being open,hones and finding a happy medium so far..fingers crossed..if you want to chat sometime add me as a friend,not quite sure how to do that yet as im new to this and its fogging my brain..lol