a question for sadists

[VaAugusta]

Well, of course I'm not really into causing actual pain. That would just make me a psychopath. Indeed, I want it to be a mutual (in the real world sense) enjoyment for both parties. That said, I kinda dig "consensual non-consensual". I guess I like the fear aspects, and the begging. Oh, the begging!

[13'sbadkitty]

Well, of course I'm not really into causing actual pain. That would just make me a psychopath. Indeed, I want it to be a mutual (in the real world sense) enjoyment for both parties. That said, I kinda dig "consensual non-consensual". I guess I like the fear aspects, and the begging. Oh, the begging!

would you please define for me what you mean by actual pain? not to be a pain, but I am a concrete sort of person.

[thir]

Well, of course I'm not really into causing actual pain. That would just make me a psychopath. Indeed, I want it to be a mutual (in the real world sense) enjoyment for both parties. That said, I kinda dig "consensual non-consensual". I guess I like the fear aspects, and the begging. Oh, the begging!

Nope, causing actual pain does not make you a psychopath, if it is wanted by both parties.

I give it, for the rush and the enjoyment of us both, and I recieve it, as a catharsis.

[leo9]

Well, of course I'm not really into causing actual pain. That would just make me a psychopath.

Was that intended as irony? I ask as one whose taste for causing real, actual, hurty-type pain is only limited by what my sub can take, and who has on occasion delighted in thrashing someone into a sobbing bleeding half-conscious heap of welts and bruises. But I'm as sane as the next man. (Looks around at some of the men here.)

[leo9]

But I'm as sane as the next man.

I might mention that I was once given a detailed personality test by a psychologist who, knowing my background, was slightly startled to find me rated as "Masochistic." A Domme I know still refers to it as "Leo failed his Dom exam."