How to be safe?

[VaAugusta]

Real quick retrospective thing I did...

So, for my first time meeting someone, I had given my phone number to a person I had talked to from a fetish site. We hadn't actually 'met' before, in person. Well anyways, I used that person as my safe call, guys need them too I suppose.. anyways, probably was a bad idea for a few reasons:
1) This person was like me, and doesn't want to be outed at all. If I hadn't called back, maybe the person would rather not have to explain to people how we know each other, the situation, etc.
2) This person has no reason to believe my story at all.. For all this person knows, I may have been the crazy one.

Just throwing that out there was probably a bad idear on my part.

[ar1]

Meeting a different someone for the first time tomorrow night, and am pretty excited about it :-) We've been talking for a few days online (not long at all, I know) and we've been getting on really well and seem to have quite a lot in common. We're just going to see how well we 'click' in person, and then see if there might be opportunity to have some fun together too or just remain friends. I'll be sure to tell a friend I'm meeting someone off the internet and set up a safe call or two. And if I were to go back to his house afterwards, I'll make sure to text the address to the friend before being all tied up and helpless at his!! Wish me luck :-)