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[denuseri]

And to answer thir's original question:

Fragile Egos and Fear are imho the two main reasons one sees more discussions by and about submissives as both subject and initiator of subjects. That and actual dominants are far more rare to begin with.

See, it is one thing to type dominant into one's profile, anyone can do that... but it's an entirely different thing all together to possess the balls to really be one in real life.

[Ozme52]

That and actual dominants are far more rare to begin with.

See, it is one thing to type dominant into one's profile, anyone can do that... but it's an entirely different thing all together to possess the balls to really be one in real life.

In part, my point clearly stated. thx denu.

[thir]

See, it is one thing to type dominant into one's profile, anyone can do that... but it's an entirely different thing all together to possess the balls to really be one in real life.

And the exact same thing can be said about subs ;-)))

Except I do not think it takes balls. I think it takes intelligence and compasssion.