Quote Originally Posted by Kellie View Post
I feel that there are many different levels of submissiveness. I personally feel that as a sub who made the decision to serve should do whatever their master says. It pleases me to make the master happy. My happiness is to serve not to question. A master is there to teach and treat their cumbucket slave their true place and we as subs should feel honored to get such high privilages from our Masters. I think we need to thank. Our master for everything they do for us since in the end they are fufilling the one true want and need we asked for.
This raises a valid point for discussion.

As a submissive, at what point do you stop being "honored by such privilages" when the way your Master/Mistress teaches has become abusive? (Understanding each relationship has it's own set of perameters.)

I know that what I deem as abusive differs from another's stand point.
Given that, personal safety is an absolute must, be it physical, mental or emotional. To blindly accept and be "honored" by treatment that is less than acceptable by the limits established, because Master/Mistress has had a bad day or decides for whatever personal gain, to abuse those limits is incomprehensible.
They are in a position of power. With that power comes a great responsibility. Neglecting or abusing that power does not make a good Master/Mistress/s relationship ever.

This is only my opinion.