lol theres that common sense word again..

Defining Safe and Sane and making those decisions in advance and consensually creates well defined boundaries and those relationships are in the least need of a safeword.
i think making decisions in advance.. can definitely change how a 'y-k-w-word' is needed or used.. and would say.. everything is more fun if its decided in advance.. what boundaries for ssc are for each person.. to make sure not only.. is everybody on the same page.. but using the same definitions too.. because theres always different ways to interpret anything.. like this conversation shows

lol fuck.. thats what i get for hanging out w/stickler for semantics..