My best suggestion is look at some of the past threads on this forum, there are many with first timers like yourself, they can provide much information given by many and might even have some answers you might not yet have come to ask about. Like the others I do suggest you make a list, what you want, what you hope to get, what you like and look at what she likes as well. Ask her, see what she enjoys, what she wants to do, find out if she has any kinks that match your own and then give it a shot, you don't know until you try. If there is anything that confuses you specifically or one area does then you can look things up quite well enough to find out more about certain subjects depending on your taste. The key to all this is communication, if you can talk with your partner and share what your feeling, what your hoping to accomplish and what you both want then it shall go much easier, those without communication tend to falter. Don't be shy, such things need to be discussed.