Asking for it?

[thir]

[QUOTE=Ozme52;908735]Realizing that herein, you're preaching to the the choir. I doubt anyone would suggest that clothing obviates the right to say no.
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You do no think so? But there is something here about this, for instance if you are on a street after dark you are asking for it.

The statement about teaching safewords to vanillas would be an asset save that sex education, when it's allowed, rarely (ever?) includes anything more than an anatomy lesson. How are we helping anyone understand their urges, motivations, and consideration of others with anatomy lessons? Does "No means no" even appear in the curriculum? ...or is it merely a billboard motto. I doubt it, (realizing it's been a long time since I was in a sex-ed class.)

I do think that if 'no' is not accepted, then no safeword is.

[Thorne]

for instance if you are on a street after dark you are asking for it.

If you cross the street in the middle of the block you are asking to get run over. That doesn't make it okay for drivers to target jaywalkers.

In an ideal world, a woman should be able to walk the streets at night naked and not fear for her safety. It's not an ideal world, of course, so dressing provocatively is liable to attract unwanted attention. That still does not make it the woman's fault that a man can't control himself. No means no, whether on the street or in the marital bed. Anything else is rape. And deserves to be punished to the full extent of the law.