I really enjoyed reading this thread. There are a lot of good points. I personally feel that saying the safe word is a disappointment to my Master. However, after many discussions I have been comforted in knowing that my Master wants only the best experience for the both of us. Meaning whether its a cramp or something more extreme, it is ok to say it.

@ Wizard... I like the idea of being asked for an explanation. I agree with you on only having one word. I feel like communication is key. And the thought of being asked for an explanation during play shows that the Master does care and is interested in what his/her sub has to say.