Thank you Scarlet

I don't think i am 'bratty' per say either. I think it is the same as you, just a case of being strong willed and independent in vanilla life.

I discussed the idea of using a safe word and he thinks it is a great idea. Thank you so much He has also asked that if i feel the need to vent like that, that i do it either on a blog or a diary in secret. Then when i have let it all out i can speak calmly to him.

I really hope I can over come this and give him everything he deserves.

Thanks again