Help for a newbie

[thir]

Another thought occured to me. Do you feel that you have enough space to be You in what you are doing?

One thing is to let out the submission, but there is obviously a lot more personality to a person than that. Is there room in your role/place/submission to be all of you?

[scarlet_85]

Another thought occured to me. Do you feel that you have enough space to be You in what you are doing?

One thing is to let out the submission, but there is obviously a lot more personality to a person than that. Is there room in your role/place/submission to be all of you?

This is an excellent point!! Love it!! One thing I will say is that the ability to be myself 100% with no restraints or conditions is liberating in itself. It completely helps with my role. My Master loves my strong will... He would never ask me to be something I'm not. So, even on my feisty days, He smiles and says, "That's 10 more swats, scarlet." Since I like that he does that, it balances everything out