too tired?

[thir]

And really now... who in the world is too tired for hot sex except when they actually want to exert control. (Okay, that may be a bit of hyperbole, but my point is that the submissive doesn't get to make the decision, except to revoke consent... and doing so isn't merely a "time out".)

I.

I have a chronic disease which often makes me too tired or too ill for sex. I can well imagine other people who have either a health problem and/or an impossibly busy time, or maybe a bereavement (grief can make your weirdly tired) or the like.

If you are blessed with a good health you may see tiredness as a sort of whim, in which case I can tell you that it is an ironhard fact of life, which you cannot ignore!

As I see it, depending on the situation the dom is supposed to know the sub enough to know what this tiredness is about, and to make a qualified reaction to the situation.