BLAH BLAH BLAH..
Journaling, by the submissive, either after or psuedo-after an "encounter", is essential.. you have a chance to say things to him what would otherwise be impossible in real life..
EXAMPLE:
"My Lord, I love when you use the speculum in my pussy, i feel like i may cum just from the softness of your voice on my throat.. however, my ass hurts unbearably to the point i can no longer be immersed in sub space.. "
Or the like...