Jealousy

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We were beginning to think our Master/slave lifestyle was over because i couldnt control the monster that came out to haunt us.

Would you like to explain why it was your Ms realationship especially that was threathened? I mean, as opposed to your relationship as a whole? Just interested.

We made a breakthrough. I learned that jealousy for me is insecurties about myself and irrational thoughts that i started to believe. Nothing Master could say would help me overcome my fears and my way of thinking.

A couple of days ago we had a long talk about what we want from each other and who we are to each other and to our selfs. This talk worked and i realized that my jealousy made me blind on who my Master is and my ways of my thinking were WRONG!

Good for you!!
And I think you are making and important point here, that jealousy is often (fi not always) a problem within ourselves, and others cannot talk us out of it. There has to be a change in within ourselves.

People who are jealous are insecure and they need to trust the other person.

IMO though this is often the case, it is not always so. Jealousy can come from real fear as well, as in situations where there is a real and recognized risk of a break-up, or where there is too little meeting of needs, and others.

What makes it all so difficult is that sometimes you should trust yourself, if your feelings tell you that your situation is not good and makes you unhappy, even if your partner tells you that you are wrong to be jealous. Obvious example is a Master with too many slaves to make it function.

I will always be jealous just because i love him so deeply and i know that he deserves the best of the best and no one knows him as much as me. Jealousy and love are sisters.

As this is a general discussion of jealousy, I feel like saying that this sounds very wrong to me, though it may be how it is for you.
Jealousy and love are not sisters, that would mean that if you are not jealous, you do not love, that jealousy is a proof of love. This is not the case, people can love without jealousy, or they can be jealous without love (being possesive or envious, for example.)

Jealousy is ok with me when it comes out in a good way and not in the destructive way. I am not very good with my words. What im trying to say is im over this "BAD JEALOUSY" I listened and opened my eyes to what was really going on in our life. My insecurities are gone and my all my trust is in my Master. Thank you for all of the advice that everyone left for us. It helped. Jealousy is a hard thing to deal with and i guess its different for each person and if there relationship is strong enough they will get through in there own way. Never give up on the things that are important.

Good to hear that things are better :-) Jealousy is a dangerous enemy and hard to conquer, congrats that you have!