Thank you emeralds. So far I am finding the community to be accepting and hopefully when I have found a good dominant and no I will not jump at the first one just because he is the first. Like I said I have done research and have an idea of what I like, now it is just about exploring and experimenting and hopefully finding a good dom in my area. I have thought of the possibility of being in a cyber relationship first, but with very little privacy and no webcam I am afraid it wouldn't be too good, plus I have also heard that they aren't a very good idea.