Hello, I'm new to the lifestyle. I have found out through stories/erotica that while I enjoy reading about sex, this lifestyle has really gotten me aroused. I am a virgin and masturbate to the particular fantasy of submitting. I have done some research on it and realize how much I am attracted to it. I am getting sick of just masturbating and being a virgin (though I don't want to give it up right away) I also would like to have a dominant who is into the "vanilla" relationship as well. I have looked to see if there are any ways to learn about the lifestyle more in my city, but found nothing. I'm 22 and have never been in a relationship. Is there any advice that can be given to me on where to start?