i am more quite scared about this as i am new to forums and new to BDSM, so i want to say hello and that i have to come to learn, and maybe understand a little better who i am.

i come to this point as the new relationship i am in is starting incorporate some of the ideas and values that i see discussed on the pages, and as i first time dom, with a first time sub, i hope i can find pointers to some of the answers i seek.

i am based in london.

thanks.