I have enjoyed SM most of my life. I have always found people who would participate with me. Unfortunately, I no longer have that luxury. Since I do not have a willing sub to play with I have started to play with myself. Being a Dom, I want to know what my actions will engender in my sub. No sub so I find out by using myself. Attached is one photo of wax play. Wax dripped on a sensitive part can lead to some exquisite pain. The idea is to let the wax drip so that it hits while it can still induce that burning sensation. I found that dripping green wax needs to be done at five to six inches in order to not cause damage yet create a wonderful feeling. I tried a red candle and found that I could drip from less that an inch and still not create that same feeling. Another advantage of waxing is the wax on hair off. This can also create interesting feelings.