For me at least. I have begun to feel switchy since being with my partner. I think it is just that since our relationship began he has helped me be more comfortable with my sexuality.

Normally I would consider myself a sub, but I have begun to wonder if it is just because I am overly nervous and have no self-esteem when it comes to having power over someone (I'm sure there is someone here who understands that).


Now with that said, I have been trying to come up with "punishments" and I am having a mental block. I can think of plenty of punishments if I was in the sub position....


He came up with one:

If I was to tie him to a chair and play with him, get him hard and horny, then leave him to play with my toys in front of him. He said that would drive him absolutely nuts.



So does anyone have any ideas like that? This is open to Dom/mes, switches, subs....Anyone with a creative mind.