OK all, I know how controversial this will be, but I am dying to hear all the responses. Think well, please, before answering.
Background: I am new to this lifestyle, having only recently given in to latent/subconscious fantasies of being a sex-slave. In my normal life, I am always the Boss, always in control, always the Director. Now, I want a man who can take that control from me, and be the Boss.
So, the question is, what does everyone think about a slave "being broken" VS "being gentled"?
Personally, I've experienced the gentle approach, and I truly crave someone who can get past my resistance, and TAKE the control from me. (Kind of like Red Sonia in the movie of the same title, starring Arnold Swarzenneger). I want to be broken. Is that so wrong of me? I desire to have my Master take me not just to my limits, but beyound. I want to be made a quivering body of submissive slave-flesh.
So, everyone else's opinions?