Lot's of people misunderstand the meaning of "Daddy-Dom". No, i do not have incest fantasies myself, nor do i particularly like "Lolita". So here is my own explanation of what a Daddy-Dom is to me:

“Daddy.” It’s sort of strange to call your Fiancé that. Or at least most people would think so. A lot of people in fact would think that it was disgusting and wrong. But they don’t know what a Daddy is. No, not a father. Everyone has one of those …or at least almost everyone. But very few people are lucky enough to have a Daddy.

A Daddy is special. A Daddy loves you unconditionally. He always wants what is best for you. He is a teacher and a protector. He is proud of you when you do well, and disappointed when you fail. A Daddy loves His little girl, and always wants her to be the best she can be. He strives to encourage her to be better and better and to achieve more and more. To follow her dreams, to believe in herself, to be honest, to improve herself in every way. And He is proud of His little girl for every accomplishment that she makes, big or small. He also has to discipline you when you don’t listen or do as you're told. He has to punish you when you misbehave so that you don’t make the same mistake again. He has to do it because He loves His little girl and He wants her to be the best she can be.

i never thought that i would have a Daddy, since my real father died when i was only three months old, and my adoptive father was very abusive. So i never really thought that i would have a Daddy-Dom. That’s probably part of why i love having my Daddy so much. i never had it from my real father or my adoptive father growing up so it sort of fills that empty spot in my heart that needs the love and guidance of a Daddy, the kind i had never known.

i have a Daddy now, and although He didn’t realize at first that He was a Daddy, i always knew. Now He knows it and loves hearing me call Him Daddy. i love my Daddy, my Master, my Fiancé, my Best Friend JC and i hope He always stays true to who He really is inside.

i am so happy that i have my Daddy to love, protect, and guide me, and to show me how to be a better person. my Daddy’s praise makes me glow with happiness, but when i disobey Him it makes me so sad i could cry because i never want to disappoint my Daddy. i want to show my Daddy that i am worthy of His praise, that He can be proud of me. i want Him to be proud of me. No... i NEED him to be! When i hear Him say “Good girl” i feel as if i could burst with happiness, because i know that He is proud of me and that i have pleased Him. And i want nothing more than to please Him and to have Him be proud of me. It's amazing how much those two little words mean to me... When i hear them i feel as if i am floating high amongst the clouds. That is how much my Daddy’s praise means to me, and when He calls me His “precious little one” i soar even higher.

i live for my Daddy’s praise, i live to hear Him call me His little girl and it feels like a part of me dies when i anger or disappoint Him. i wish i could always be good, and that i was always deserving of my Daddy’s praise. Though sometimes i wonder if i am deserving of it at all, and sometimes i wonder what i did to deserve such a wonderful Daddy. Sometimes i wonder if i’m worthy of His love and guidance, but then He hugs me and calls me His little girl and suddenly that fades away and all i can think of is how much i love Him and want to please Him. Somehow at that moment it doesn’t matter what i did to deserve Him, only that i do everything to show Him what He means to me and that i prove to Him that i AM worthy of His praise and that He CAN be proud of me.

i love my Daddy so much and i just want Him to be proud of me and to know how much i love Him. i want to be the best submissive, the best little girl, the best person i can be, so that my Daddy will have more reasons to be proud. So that others will see it too and know what a good Daddy i have that He has taught me so well. i want others to praise my Daddy the same way He praises me. i want to show everyone that i have the best Daddy in the world. my Master, my Fiancé, my Best Friend... JC.