hello to all. I am a sub all the way but my partner wants me to dom over him during sex, he wants me to go all out and be rough (which is not a problem for me since i like pain as well) but he also wants me to talk down to him and embarrass him. I am not mean at all and have a huge heart all i want to do is please him. I am asking for advice on i guess you would say being mean or what ever...I am fairly new to all of this when i was in a 7 yr marriage i knew that there was something missing in me. when i seperated from my ex i decided to further my education on being a great sub if you will. I love to please and want to please him now i am just needing help.... any advice on my delima or anything with subs would be grately appreciated. Thank you