for years i have set aside the true me that i wish to be. being a mother has posed many challanges for me in my life. having people expect me to be one way and being my true self caused chaos. one day i had an epiphany "be true to thyne own self" so ladyepiphany was born. im a 38 year old balck female who demands respect and has to have controll. my friends say they cant belive the transformation that has occured in me. having lived through much tragedy. i find my strength in pain. once you get to know me, the explaination of pain will become more clear. so i hope to make some friends here and i really enjoy this site. ...