Hello everyone, just wanted to introduce myself.

I am fairly new to BDSM, been practicing for about a year now. It all started when I began dating a girl who liked being spanked, liked it rough, etc, but never actually saw herself as being in to bondage or submission. Likewise, I never imagined that I would like dominating someone.

Well, the rough sex and hair pulling quickly led me to start reading books and buying all sorts of torture devices, rope, chains, etc. It has opened my eyes in many ways, and I love it.

We are very vanilla otherwise, and only take on our roles in the bedroom (or kitchen, or bathroom, or wherever I decide to do bad things to her, lol). We have kept it our secret, and currently have no desire to share with others.

I hope to read and learn here, in order to become a better Dominant to my slave. Any advice for a newb Dom would be appreciated.