Seriously, I have never met a nicer online (or offline) community. Nobody judges anybody. No threads ever get derailed for long because the participants have such respect for the original poster. I'm actually the most hostile one here (I popped off at the mouth at someone once who shared a different view than my own). But that's as about as extreme as it gets. You go to ANY other site and there is always trouble. Even if the site is based on togetherness. There is always somebody who is at ends with somebody else. There are always cliques. There are always trolls. But not here. The Admins don't even have to set people straight that often. I find this amazing. Why is it that the people here are just soooooooo nice, helpful, and sweet? Especially since, behind closed doors, a lot of us can turn into S&M freaks (in a good way where our whips do the talking and our knees to the walking.