hi all i was wondering if any one can help? I am looking for was to get my hubby to go through my menstrual cycle with me but not to sure on how to do it. I have read some were but carnt remember were about useing veg oil and red dye and but it up his bum and it will give cramps and leak out over a couple of days but not sure if it is safe has anyone heared or tryed this or has anyone got any other ideas.