I have been exploring this site for about a week, and enjoying what I am reading. Thanks to my friend Hawksinger for introducing me to this site!

I am a 30 year old mother of three who has always desired to be dominated. The first man I was with (the father of my children) told me my desires were sick and that I needed professional help, so I suppressed my feelings for many years.

I left that man, and just started exploring my submissive desires in February. So far I am liking what I am doing! I have a Master who has been living the lifestyle since he was eighteen, so has six years of experience under his belt.

So far we have tried bondage (shibari), spanking, whipping, ball gags, orgasm denial, nipple clamps, use of toys in sex, fisting...and more.

For all the Masters and submissives who are reading this...I am looking for more ways to please him. I went on the chat room last night and got some good advice....I had planned on surprising him when he got home, but he came home an hour early with a migraine, so I put those plans on hold. So if anyone else has ideas on how a sub can please her Dom, please leave me a reply!

And thanks, in advance!