I just wanted to say hello to everyone . I am kinda new to all of this and was wondering if anyone had any tips for me and my husband . We are open to trying new and exciting things . I have never really concidered my self to be bdsm in any way shape or form due to the things i have seen about it. But as i was doing more and more research on it i realized we are a little more involved with bdsm than either one of us thought . Anyways our 5 year wedding anniversary is comming up at the end of the month and i want to suprise him and go all out with this stuff , be need some ideas on what to do , as for sub and dom go i guess i would be more of the sub one in the relation ship , because i am more in to being tied up . cuffed, whipped , spanked etc than he is .