Hello all,this is the first time I have ever posted anywhere. I am new to the BDSM scene but as pointed out by my girlfriend my last relationship had quite a few "kinks" in it which I just kind of thought of as "normal" who would have thunk? lol smilez My girlfriend claims to be a sub but I beleve she is more of a switch. I would like to be a dom but I to am more of a switch...just something about when a woman takes control....hummm...evil grin. I am open to any advice on being a dom...thnx and I am looking forward to making new friends and educating myself....peace Slurb