All men want to dominate and discipline a woman, yes? Of course they do, but only in the privacy of their bedroom or computer den.
Most men are shy cowards when it comes to being the boss.
Of course there are the wife-beater types, but who can respect or trust them?
It's very, very difficult to find a man who you can rely on to indulge your fetishes without injuring or betraying you. And I need to genuinely respect a man before giving myself in bondage to him.
It's not easy being a woman who wants to be bossed.