Hi. I am a complete newb with BDSM and was invited/directed here by lozzy57. I have only recently come to terms with these sort of feelings, and am still not 100% about what I would and wouldn't enjoy.

I am male, and (I think) sub. Beyond that, its hard for me to say because I'm still not clear myself. Sexually I am bi, though vanilla sex doesn't particulary appeal, and I have never really found myself attracted to a person for the person themselves. I am also into ABDL stuff.

I've joined this because I am looking for information on BDSM stuff to try and understand myself more and BDSM in general. Any useful threads you can point me too as a complete and utter newbie?