Just wanted to get this post out after the problem with the site ate my profile. I'll be leaving for a while, don't know how long. Some of you know me, and some don't know that you know me, but i've come to a part of my life where I need to figure out not only who I am, but what I want to be. I'm dibbled in a few things, but everytime I try BDSM, I get screwed. I have really enjoyed knowing a few people here, and I will try to keep in touch. Just don't be shocked if you don't seem me for awhile. I think this is a good time to try and understand where things are going. Good luck to everyone here, have a merry christmas and a happy new year, and I hope to re-join this lifestyle some day.