I just need some advice I had been collared in training to a 24/7 live in Mistress who ran a poly house with two other fully collared pets. we where right up to the point where we were talking about when I get my full collar and sleeping in the same bed with Her and Her other male pet. The thing is the other pet I was going to be with wasn't attracted to me and is just now saying this after 9 months of a relationship.

Also the only way She says that She planned to be with me sexually was with him as well. Thus it won't work out because She doesn't feel comfortable being alone with me because of Her personal body image issues.
This being after I took a lesser paying job that I can't support myself on but was allowing me more time to spend with Her.

She is allowing me to stay till I can figure out something and is willing to help me find another Dom/me. I just don't know if that is the right idea. I want to stay and just not have sex, or wait until She is comfortable enough to be alone with me. I just don't know what I should be doing or how I should move forward. Any words of wisdom would be great I've been kind of without any meaning or hope this last week, and feel I just need some outside input.

Thanks