To me, being catcalled on the street - especially sexual/violent comments - is very threatening and makes me feel unsafe, the exact opposite of feeling sexy. To me this falls under the guidelines of ssc and rack, for someone (usually a woman) to be propositioned or called a whore and a bitch by a complete stranger is not safe or consensual at all.

I've been reading quite a few blogs about unwanted attention and harassment these days and had someone say offhand that there is no is no such thing as unwanted sexual attention for a sub. I find this woefully ignorant myself and was curious as to other subs opinions on the subject.


(For a very entertaining take on this subject and also on the subject that women in general have to live their lives with the knowledge that in real life she is very likely to be raped or molested against her will and not in any sort of fun playlike way, here is an interesting article entitled Schrödinger’s Rapist: or a guy’s guide to approaching strange women without being maced )