I enjoy the causing of pain; I enjoy the sense of power from Knowing I can do Anything I want, and that only My own self-control will prevent Damage; I enjoy extracting her consent to bear pain she feels incapable of bearing, and then showing her that she is Far stronger than she had believed. The boost to her self-confidence, And the rush I get from knowing she trusts my judgment- not only to take her thru the pain, but to bring her back out of it safely is a Big attraction to Me, too. And finally, when deep into a scene, the communication can become almost telepathic- and I have not found any other way to get that deeply into someone's head. The dungeon is where I Live!